Well, since you shouldn't be driving your lude with the rear suspension in the condition it's in, pull that shock/spring combo out the car and take pics of the top of it (remove the 10mm nuts and the mounting piece and shock/spring combo should come out. You'll have to remove the lower fork bolt too of course). I have a feeling that you'll need another top shock mount. One from a junkyard should do as long as it's in decent condition.
I think that the washer that Mario is talking about is part of the upper shock mount. I had the same thing happen to my 85 Grand Am I used to have. When I hit a bump, it'd knock the top of the shock into the trunk and make this aweful noise! It was like 13 for a new one from the dealer...